It is perhaps every man's fantasy two enjoy two girls at once in a game of three-way. Imagine it to be this way: you have two girls working on you like you were the most manly man on earth. Having two girls at once means you have two tongues and two pairs of hands working on your body, giving you the most immense pleasure. Having two girls at the same time also means the ultimate fantasy can be played out, specifically, that of two girls doing each other.

The case of the threesome has been around for thousands of years (ancient art definitely depicts three people in a sexual act). The French even have a term for it: ménage a trois.

Literally translated, ménage à trois translated actually means a "household of three". Although there are cases when the threesome involves two men focusing on just one woman, the most of common of threesomes involves a guy and two girls. On the more domesticated front, ménage à trios can mean a heterosexual couple making living arrangements with a lesbian lover.

The threesome's depiction in porn films and subsequent experimentations in real life have made some people (those that have experienced threesomes) believe that the pleasures that can be had from this swinging experience are overrated, and that they rarely happen in real life.

Renee, a Canadian who had a threesome experience during her stint in the Philippines, had a less than spectacular experience. Her threesome experience involved her Filipina girlfriend and her diving instructor.

"His penis was just too soft, it could not get in me. He just kept on licking away to while away the time," she said. The guy obviously was not able to sustain his erection long enough to pound on one of the pussies involved.

Renee's story is just one of the many disappointing experiences reported in a threesome. Take heart, however, for every bad experience, there are always successes that tip the balances in favor of the threesome. But definitely, there are ways in which you can increase the chances of a successful experience. Read on and take notes.

1. Mind the height.

Renee is 5"10' in height while her girlfriend stood at a mere 5"2'. The dive instructor stood at 5"6'. In all likelihood, the guy probably was not turned on because of the immense height difference between the two girls and the difference in their physique.

2. Mind the mindset.

Remember where you are when you plan on a threesome. You are more likely to get the most pleasurable experience in a porn star movie set than it is in a conservative country. The same goes for the people you are with. You are more likely to get more meaningful cooperation from people who are into, or are very curious, about threesomes than people who are more comfortable with twosomes.

3. Watch relevant porn.

Threesomes involve a bit of acrobatics and tons of imagination so that it is guaranteed to be a satisfying experience for all parties involved. You can fumble and do, or take it from the expert. It is highly recommended that you do your homework. Watch porn.