Can You Find The One?
Can You Find The One? True love and great sex are not mutually exclusive - in fact, they are great together. So, if you're looking for true love and you have a fetish for the feet, you can have the best of both worlds. In other words, you can find someone to truly love and have foot games part of the lovemaking routine.While it all boils down to different strokes for different folks, chances are you will find your wonderful ONLY ONE because of the Internet.
Not that the Internet makes foot fetishists out of those who prefer regular sex. Rather, the Internet can help you find your partner. It doesn't matter if you are in the United States and your soul mate is on some island in the Pacific.
Niche dating sites like Foot Fetish Partners, a member of the World-dating partners Network, can get you on the network of other foot fetishists through its enormous database.
Foot fetish is the number sought after fetish by members of online communities. In a research on 5,000 individual fetishists conducted by the University of Bologna, it was found that 47% preferred feet and toes.
The results are not at all surprising. After all, the human races' "sexualization" of the feet spans centuries, all over the world, from China to Europe. It's in the biology - the feet produce the same pheromones that our armpits and genitals produce. It's also in the neurology. Vilayanur Ramachandran, a neurologist, has gone as far as to propose that foot fetish is caused by a possible neurological crosstalk between the feet and the genitals. Both occupy adjacent spaces in the somatosensory cortex.
FINDING THE ONE
Finding true love is all about knowing and accepting yourself. After all, the most important person to make any relationship work is YOU, not your partner. It means that if you're on the prowl, you must already know the level of foot fetish you have. It also means being honest with yourself, that is, if you're willing to compromise on your fetish if your partner is not up to your intensity.
In the book Fetish: Fashion, Sex And Power, fetishism is described as a continuum of behavior that varies in four stages of intensity: (a) Partialism or a mild preference, (b) Low intensity fetishism, (c) Moderate intensity fetishism, and (d) High level fetishism.
Partialism is nothing more than a mild liking for a fetish. You don't necessarily engage in the fetish as a matter of habit. In low-intensity fetishism, you incorporate the fetish as part of the foreplay. If you have moderate-intensity fetishism, you don't get aroused or you don't perform very well without your fetish. In high-level fetishism, your partner's feet take the place of your partner.
At first breath, fetishism may seem like borderline perversion at its most intense. Do take note though, that fetishism, is just your idea of great sex. It does not take the place of true love, which entails respecting your partner and doing things that would please him or her.